This post is part of a series of posts based on my Manifesto Of Hard. If you want to create change in your life, embrace hardship and thrive in it. That’s what I’m studying this month, and this post shares some of those findings with you…
I’m fascinated by change: it’s a constant in life yet so many people work so hard (consciously and unconsciously) to resist change under the notion that change is hard. I used to feel that way too. I thought the ultimate life was one of stasis and I was frustrated by the amount of change in my life and the losses of relationships and opportunities that resulted.
Fortunately, at some point, I realized that change is a constant in life, and it’s good. I also realized that if I could embrace change, it would help me meet new people and get new opportunities that others wouldn’t get because they were afraid of change. It’s a trade-off, for sure, but I feel like I’ve come out ahead because of it.
If you want to create a richer life of more memorable experiences and a greater variety of people and opportunities, embrace change. Discover the power and beauty of newness even when you struggle with the discomfort of unpredictability.
Want to get really practical? Go a different route to work tomorrow. Order something different at a restaurant. Spend the evening doing something you’ve never done. Go for a weekend getaway to a small town you’ve never been to before.
… Start small and introduce little opportunities for change in your life and see where it takes you.